While anal play is often discussed as taboo, it can actually feel incredibly pleasurable for both the bottom and top. And as long as you use plenty of lube and follow safety tips, anal play can be very safe.
Pleasurable anal stimulation can happen with a plug or beads, a penis or dildo, a finger, or anal vibrators. The important thing is that you find a pleasure spot that feels good for you.
It’s a natural orgasm
In this era of butt-mania, where tits are lauded and Kim Kardashian’s booty is worshipped, it can be intimidating to think about exploring the anal. But, the good news is that anal pleasure can be a real thing and can make for an incredible orgasm. It’s just a matter of knowing what to do.
The geography of the anus makes it a highly pleasurable sex organ. It contains a dense network of sensory nerves that participate with the genitals in the engorgement, muscular tension and contractions that occur during sexual arousal and orgasm.
Many women who have experienced pleasure from anal stimulation describe it as similar to clitoral orgasms. They feel a pulse of pleasurable muscle contractions in the anal canal and around the anal sphincter. In addition, some women say that stimulating their anus and clitoris at the same time can result in a more explosive orgasm.
Although most existing research on anal sexuality focuses on penetration, our study found that most adult women use a variety of touch and stimulation techniques to reach pleasure in their anus. Specifically, they may use their partner’s penis, fingers, lips/tongue, or a sex toy. This granularity supports models of anal sexuality in which women and their partners are empowered to individuate the anal touch and stimulation technique(s) that meet their pleasure needs.
It’s pleasurable
The anus is packed with nerves, and like other erogenous zones, it’s capable of producing orgasms. But the sensations differ depending on the individual body. For example, some people experience anal orgasms more intensely than others. It takes time to learn what feels good, and it’s important not to rush things.
Many anal orgasms are preceded by clitoral stimulation or vaginal sex, but some women experience pleasure from anal play alone. Foreplay with your partner can help you ease into anal sex. You can also use a lubricant to increase the comfort and pleasure of anal play. It’s important to remember that anal sex can carry bacteria, so be sure to take your time and use proper hygiene.
For beginners, it’s best to start with a lubricated finger and slowly insert it into the anus. Move the finger around and experiment with different movements to find what feels good. If you’re comfortable, try adding a second finger and increasing the speed.
If you’re interested in exploring anal orgasms, consider taking a class from sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas or listening to B-Vibe’s anal-specific podcast. Also, don’t forget to wash before and after anal sex. Douching is a great way to clean the anus and helps you feel more confident. However, anal sex should always be performed with a condom to prevent infection.
It’s a climax
For those who have never experienced anal play, it may feel strange to think that fucking the ass could be pleasurable. But this is a very real sensation, and it can be as pleasurable as any other orgasm. Anal orgasms can be triggered by stimulation of the nerves in and around the anus, which is full of erogenous zones that are sensitive to touch. This makes anal sex a great way to experience pleasure from the bottom and get to know one’s body better.
For women, anal sex can induce climax by stimulating the G-spot and A-spot. For men, it can also lead to climax by stimulating the P-spot (the prostate).
But there are some things to keep in mind while performing anal sex. For example, it is important to use a good quality lube before anal sex. Lube can help you avoid anal tearing and make the experience even more pleasurable. It’s also important to communicate with your partner and to use safe sex precautions.
And remember, you should never rush into anal play. Anal orgasms can take time to build, and you may not reach climax the first time you try it. And pressure, stress, and anxiety are the fastest ways to block orgasm. Instead, try to relax and focus on pleasure. You can start by using foreplay to build up the tension and then easing into anal penetration.
It’s safe
While anal stimulation can feel ahh-mazing, it’s important to be safe and communicate with your partner. Many people have never had anal play, so it’s a good idea to practice slowly and make sure everyone is comfortable. Also, use lots of lube! It’s crucial for anal orgasm and will help the experience feel better. You can even try different positions to get the most pleasure out of anal play, like reverse missionary.
Getting an anal orgasm is possible by stimulating the anus area with a finger, penis, or sex toy. For cisgender women and people assigned female at birth, stimulating the anus can indirectly stimulate the “A-spot” in the vagina, which is full of nerves that are erotically charged. This can lead to an orgasm that feels very different from a vaginal orgasm.
For beginners, it’s best to explore anal penetration with your or your partner’s fingers, and then gradually increase the size of the tool. For a more climactic anal orgasm, you can use sex toys that are specifically designed for the anus, such as butt plugs and anal beads. They are usually made from glass or silicone and come in different sizes. Some of these toys even have vibration settings, which can make for a more intense orgasm. However, you must remember that anal penetration can lead to pregnancy and STIs, so it’s best to use condoms whenever possible.
