Stimulating the anus is a highly intimate activity that can produce immense pleasure. There are a lot of nerves in and around the anus, which can feel great when rubbed, caressed, or massaged.
Some women describe an anal orgasm as feeling similar to a clitoral orgasm, a pulse of pleasurable contractions, but this time around the anal sphincter. Others say it feels like a spreading wave of pleasure.
1. It’s a climax
The anus is a super sensitive area with loads of nerve endings, and as such, can feel really, really good when touched. But even more important than anatomical facts is trust: If you’re going to try anal sex, it’s best to do it with someone you know has your pleasure at heart and won’t hurt you.
If you’ve never had an anal orgasm, it may take some time to find out what feels right for you. Then, you can experiment with different techniques or toys.
For instance, a lot of people have reported that having their partner lick their anus or tease them around it gives them intense orgasms. Then, once you both feel comfortable, you can move on to penetration.
A good anal orgasm can feel a bit like a clitoral orgasm but more intense and faster, reports one Lioness user. It’s also often described as painful but “a pain that feels amazing” and euphoric at the same time.
To get a good anal orgasm, start by lubing up your anus and penis with a little bit of sex oil or a lick of sperm. Then, use your fingers to explore the anal hole – it’s a great place for a little bit of friction and exploration. You can also use a sex toy, like the b-Vibe, which is designed specifically for anal play.
2. It’s a rush
For many people, anal orgasms feel different from other types of orgasms. It’s because the anal area is highly sensitive, and a rush of sensation can be felt from stimulating this part of the body.
For some women, if their anal is stimulated enough, they can also experience clitoral orgasms. This happens because the anus is packed with tons of sensitive nerve endings that are connected to the clitoris. The anal orgasm may also feel different for each person because this sensation feels more intense and personal.
To have an anal orgasm, it’s important to get in the right mindset. This means being comfortable, taking a shower or bath before, and doing whatever else helps you relax and become aroused. It could be touching other erogenous zones, listening to music, watching porn, or even making out with your partner.
Once you’re in the right mindset, try placing a finger or the tip of a plug inside your anal to start stimulating it. This can be a bit uncomfortable at first, but once you build up the pressure and tension enough to reach a peak point, it will feel amazing. Some people also have a prostate in the back of their pelvis, and stimulating this area can lead to an anal orgasm. This is sometimes called “prostate milking” and can be very enjoyable.
3. It’s a rush of pleasure
The anus is a very sensitive area with lots of nerve endings, which means that stimulating it can feel really good. This type of orgasm can be achieved by penetrating the anus with a penis, finger, or anal vibrators. The anal opening also contains the prostate, which can feel extra hard for men (sometiems called “prostate milking”).
Stimulating the anus can make you want to cum harder than usual, especially if it’s done with a hard object. To help you achieve this orgasm, it’s important to use plenty of lube and to practice. This can include watching porn, trying foreplay, or even just talking sexy with your partner.
For women, anal penetration can be a great way to reach the G-spot and the A-spot, which are both located in the front wall of the vagina. It’s also a great way to stimulate the pudendal nerve, which can be quite hard to reach.
One of the most popular ways to get an anal orgasm is by practicing a rider-on-top position like Missionary or Cowgirl. This allows the man to touch and massage the anus and can be incredibly satisfying for both partners. The anal orgasm can be intensified by adding clitoral stimulation as well, so be sure to communicate with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t.
4. It’s a rush of sensation
You might not know it, but the anal is a pleasure center all its own. In fact, it’s packed with nerve endings that send signals to the brain just like the clitoris and G-spot do. So it’s definitely a place that deserves exploration. And luckily, almost everyone has an anus to play with.
But anal orgasms feel different for everybody. Some people get orgasms from penetrative anal sex with their partner’s penis, while others enjoy it via lighter touch or sex toys. It’s a great idea to practice and find what feels good for your anus and body type, as it can be very sensitive.
One thing that is key to anal orgasms is relaxing the anal sphincter muscles. This can be done through masturbation or foreplay techniques, such as slow, deep kissing. Some people also find that stimulating the sphincter with a clitoral toy can help to get the job done.
Another thing that is key to anal orgasms, is communication with your partner. It’s important to talk about what strokes, pressure, and intensity feels good for both of you. This helps you to relax, knowing that your partner has your pleasure in mind, and can communicate if something is too much or not enough. It’s also a good idea to practice the standard Missionary or Cowgirl sex positions, as these can help you to stimulate your anus manually.
